As a coach who spends countless hours in the gym with aspiring young players, I’ve witnessed the highs and lows of this journey. My aim is always to provide clarity, helping these ambitious individuals understand the dedication and hard work required to achieve their goals. I don’t believe in telling someone they can’t make it; instead, I emphasize the commitment it takes to reach the next level.
The Critical Middle School Years
Recently, I had the privilege of coaching some talented middle school players. If you or your child aspires to become a college basketball player, I want to stress the importance of the activities you engage in during middle school. This is where it all begins. My father provided me with the tools I needed to succeed as a high school basketball player, and I pass on the same wisdom to my kids and the players I mentor.
During middle school, players have a unique opportunity to focus on developing the skills and mindset needed to excel in high school basketball. This foundation is crucial because, once you reach high school, your schedule becomes tightly intertwined with your coach’s agenda. Middle school is where you can truly dedicate time to honing your game and laying the groundwork for skills that will translate not just to high school but to college as well.
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Deceptive Practices that Surrounds Young Athletes
Now, let’s address a concerning issue: the deception that often surrounds young athletes. There’s a massive industry, worth billions of dollars, built around young players aspiring to reach the next level. Within this industry, individuals are paid to help players or, unfortunately, mislead them into believing they’re on the right path. My approach is different; I empower players to understand what it truly takes to succeed and encourage them to take charge of their journey.
One of the most significant lies players face is being told how good they are in middle school. Development rates vary greatly during this period, making it misleading to rank or compare players. Some players may physically mature faster, but that doesn’t necessarily equate to long-term basketball success. The desire for approval and ranking can undermine skill development and hinder a player’s growth.
Focus on Honing Your Skills
I always tell my players that their true success should come from the work they put in when no one is watching. Seeking validation through likes, retweets, or follower counts can undermine the dedication required to excel in basketball. A player may appear great on the surface but struggle when faced with a more physically developed opponent. Conversely, an unranked, seemingly unnoticed player who diligently hones their skills in the gym can have a far brighter future.
In essence, don’t fall for the industry’s myths and comparisons. Instead, put in the work, love your development, and understand the standards of excellence in basketball, irrespective of how you compare to others who may not be as good as they think they are.
Something to keep in mind…
The path to becoming a college basketball player is filled with challenges and opportunities. Don’t let misleading rankings or the desire for instant recognition deter you from your true purpose – developing your craft